And if you don't love me now You will never love me again I can still hear you saying You would never break the chain (Never break the chain) - The Chain by Fleetwood Mac (Remastered 2004) Over the past few days I watched both parts of Guardians of The Galaxy, Vol. 1 & 2... Continue Reading →
All of us know the impact our parents have on us. More often than not, their needs become our needs, their insecurities become our insecurities and their baggage becomes our baggage. In this whirlwind of emotions, it is easy to forget that parents themselves have learned these behaviors and are empathic human beings who may be willing to unlearn it for the sake of their children.
Recently I have met a Professor of Psychotherapy, a Consultant Psychiatrist and a GP – all parents of children lost to mental illnesses. Here’s what one mum says:
“Whenever I have seen a therapist, they have gone straight to my childhood, my up-bringing, my parents and their parents. All my behaviours and feelings seem to be explained and understood based on their behaviours, however ‘normal’, for their times. I am encouraged to think of all the ways in which they could have directly or indirectly damaged me.
By that principle, all of my child’s behaviours and feelings should be explained and understood based on the behaviours of his parents. Half of them is me. I agree. I must be part of the problem. My profession is perceived as a bigger problem. ‘High achieving Asian’ parents are assumed to put a lot of pressure on their children. So much so, the…
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It starts in my soul, and I lose all control When you kiss my nose, the feelin' shows 'Cause you make me smile, baby, just take your time now Holdin' me tight, wherever you go - Bubbly, Colbie Caillat All of us have grown up with the concept of the one- the one person we... Continue Reading →
Yes- I know the title doesn't make sense. No- I'm not going to make it any easier for you to understand :') An important thing that you should know about me is that I love decorating my room. I feel like it's a representation of my personality and I love going creative with my space.... Continue Reading →
"You should come visit" -NJ Me -"I'd love to but I'm so stressed right now. Plus I'm traveling to India!" "You should totally come visit" -NJ (after a few weeks) Me -"Uh, I don't know.. I have end sems and I'm traveling to my parents for vacation :/" "Dude! You need to come visit" -... Continue Reading →